He Motivated Me


I was glad to have met him and worked with him for the little time that I did. Then all of a sudden he turned on me in a matter of minutes. He called me about an article that he read I wrote and  told me to removed it from the website.

In a fatigue overwhelm state I was bold enough to speak my mind and he didn’t like that.  Well I knew the outcome of this wouldn’t be good so I tried apologize even though I knew I wasn’t wrong  that didn’t work. So he said we will have a meeting about what happened.

I waited for that call it never came so I sent a message through facebook no response, then another message, then another message, and another message nothing not even a emotion icon.  So at this point I knew I was purposely being ignored and I was hotter than fish grease.

Everyday I would say WOW I thought we were better than that but, I can clearly see I was wrong. Then after a few days of being pissed I began to take action and steps toward my goals.  I went back to my purpose of him being in my life and came to the conclusion I didn’t need him to began he was a crutch to keep me from clarifying what I wanted.  I’m proud me of because, I should of cursed him out but, I held my tongue.

So in a state of sadness I began to do things that I know I wouldn’t have done if he was still in my life. I said “I’m going to show him who’s boss watch me do this, I will show him I’m going to do that. Then I reflected and thought interesting this person whom I was beefing with has been my greatest motivator.  I made all these strides to show someone whom I didn’t like anymore that I can achieve what I want with or without him amazing.

So now I want to call him and take him to lunch and tell him “Thank You” so much for for hurting my feelings by ignoring  me because, you motivated more than any of my life coaches and self-help books.

Published by Ms Tangela Stephens

"Hello" Thanks for reading my bio. I am Tangela Stephens a college graduated with a Bachelors Degree in Applied Arts Science and a minor in communications. I grew up in a small town in Southeast Texas and for fun I loved watching talking shows and that developed my passion for interesting stories. My twin sister and I would do interviews with each using our radio cassette tape recorder so that is how my interviewing skills got started .(LOL) My greatest accomplishment was winning the Miss Texas American Dream pageant and going on to compete in Miss American Dream Pageant in Las Vegas, Nevada. That lead me to many opportunities to act in music videos, television appearances, and being feature in magazines and news articles. In my media career I worked in the television production studio at my church, and as a radio co-host with local radio stations. When I am not blogging or vlogging about things that interested me you can find me at my day job or side hustle, and possible trying to figure out a way to travel to a new place I want to see. Lastly, I almost forgot to mention the best thing in my life. I am currently engaged to my best friend and soulmate Tobi Dollar. Our online friendship turned romantic and developed into something serious and we plan to get married very soon. Subscribe to my blog I guarantee to keep you interested and entrained. xoxox

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